Fear is not a bad thing, but it must be managed.
In the outside world, if you notice yourself feeling fear, this can be useful. Your intuition maybe telling you that you are in a bad situation. If you sense fear, you should listen to your intuition. However, you must manage that fear in order to perform effective techniques with control.
Even in class, you may have experienced fear. Maybe you have been fearful of getting hurt in self-defense or sparring. Maybe you have been fearful of failing or not being able to learn a new technique or form. Maybe you have been fearful what the instructor or other students are thinking of how you are performing.
There are several techniques you can use to manage fear.
First off, you have to be exposed to situations that invoke fear and challenge your comfort zone. If you just shy away from every situation when you feel fear, you will not be able to manage it when you need to. So, for example, spar against those you think are more skilled, learn new techniques you are uncomfortable with, and demonstrate new techniques in front of the other students.
Also, acknowledge what you are feeling. It is okay to feel fear and know that it can be normal when you are in an uncomfortable situation or learning new techniques. And even talk to your instructor about it, if you feel comfortable doing so to get the support you need to cope with it at that time.
Make sure you are breathing those deep, slow, belly breaths. As stated in class and written in other blogs, deep belly breaths help you slow down your heart rate, It also provides more oxygen to your body resulting in clearer thoughts and actions, muscles having the oxygen they need to perform, more endurance to last during the altercation, and the energy flow that accompanies breathing to make your techniques more effective. For more information on deep breathing, please read the December 2016 blog, “Deep Breathing…Could Be A Life Saver.”
Use visualization especially before starting a sparring match or self-defense imagining yourself performing the techniques effectively.
Stay present and take it one class, one drill, one technique at a time. Part of the learning process is trying new things, where sometimes things work well, and sometimes they do not.
By facing your
fears and managing the emotion, you can take action in a controlled, effective
manner. In a real altercation, this can be the difference of walking away with
minimal to no injury or not.
Regards,
Kelly
"To understand your fear is the beginning of really seeing." ~ Bruce Lee, (1940 –1973) American-born Chinese Hong Kong martial artist, actor, and founder of Jeet Kune Do
References:
1. https://www.martialdevotee.com/articles/overcoming-the-fear-of-combat, retrieved 12/27/2024
2. Fear and Anxiety in Martial Arts – Why It’s Normal and How to Conquer It | Utopia, retrieved 12/27/2024
3. Fearless Warriors: Exploring the Psychology of Fear in Martial Arts, retrieved 12/27/2024